"How
to Become Extra-Ordinary: The 7Cs of Finding Your Heart
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This is
Workshop One of a three part, 2008 workshop series on
creating and living an Extra-Ordinary life
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7Cs @ Home: The 7 C Success Factors To Making Your Life Extra-Ordinary
Going to sea, is a powerful metaphor for
our life journey.
1. Course: Alignment to
our values and our purpose Why it’s important: People flounder
from lack awareness of the values we operate under.
Some of the values we have adopted are incompatible
with who we are and need to be shed. Other values flow
from deeply within and need to be amplified in our lives.
Our vision needs to stand on what we value. Our vision
or “Course” is essential for us to fully engage life
and for life to engages us. Outcomes for us: We uncover and connect
to our purpose
2. Choice: Everyone acts
a ‘captain’ of their own ship Why it’s important: . “Choice” shifts
us from reactive stance to pro-active stance, from passive
voice to response-able voice, from trusting others to
trusting others and trusting self. We live life from
the inside out, not outside in. Outcomes for us: A sense of “captaincy”
or total ‘self-response-ability’ in every aspect of
our lives.
3. Courage:
Go to sea despite your fear, risk and do the things
you value Why it’s important: “Courage” enables
us to take the right risk and to reach for the things
in life we truly value. We build courage by taking measured,
strategic risks. By building our capacity to suffer
the discomfort of fear, we get to get what we want. Outcomes for us: We loose the fear
of fear and build the courage to seek out what we value.
4. Capacity: Keep ship-shape and build
sea-worthiness in all four compass quadrants Why it’s important: “Capacity” means
expanding our capacity in the four dimensions of health
(body), learning (mind), feelings (emotion) and higher
purpose (spirit). Growth in capacity requires reaching
beyond current limits, expending energy, then resting
and building overall sustaining rituals. Outcomes for us: Expanded personal
capacity in body, mind, emotion and spirit.
5. Companion:
Get the right crew onboard, in the right relationships Why it’s important: “Companion” means
getting the right people into our lives then creating
sustaining, empowering, co-creative relationships. It
also often means leaving behind some relationships that
are energy drains. Outcomes for us: The right people in
our lives in the right relationships.
6. Curiosity: Cast off,
explore new territory, learn and renew continuously Why it’s important: Continuous learning
and renewal keeps us and our minds alive in the sea
of modern change. “Curiosity” drives continuous learning
and personal transformation. In this way we are able
to adapt and expand our lives. Key outcomes: Life remains mysterious,
awesome and inspiring.
7. Compassion: Sail for
self Why it’s important: "Compassion"
means giving up striving to be what we are not, and
accepting who we authentically are. It means loving
ourselves and being able, therefore, to love others
from strength. Ironically in self acceptance, we are
then able to grow and love others more Outcomes for us: Peace, love and excellence